May 08 2008
Lazy Man’s Guide to Changing the World
Is it possible to change the world by doing absolutely nothing?
Some people are just so lazy. They’d like to change the world, but it’s just such hard work! Isn’t there an easy option that involves doing absolutely squat?
Let’s see… What if…?
What if you threw a party and no one came?

What if you rented a hall, booked caterers, hired a band, felt the thrill of anticipation… and no one came?
What if you publicized it, invited everyone you knew and hordes you didn’t, broadcast far and wide that it would be the party to end all parties… and no one came?
What if you splashed all your cash on it, called in favours from everyone imaginable, promised the earth to anyone who helped… and no one came?When no one came, what would you do?
- Blame your moronic guests for not knowing a good thing when they saw one?
- Blame all those who’d helped you for screwing up?
- Or would you look at yourself?
What if, after long and painful self-examination, you discovered it wasn’t anyone else’s fault, just yours.
What if you learned that the only reason no came was that people didn’t like you because they didn’t trust you - they knew you weren’t doing this for them so there had to be a catch?
And they were right!
You were selfish. Egotistical. Manipulative. You threw the party not to show people a good time but for how it could benefit you. It was all about you. About your wants. Not about your guests. You only threw the party so people would love you, believe in you, trust you… How better to manipulate them? Deceive them? Cheat them?
What if it took this act of gross dislike to shock you out of your narcissistic selfishness? What if it took this rejection for you to realize that the only way to have people help you to get what you want is not through coercion and lying, but by delivering on your promises while expecting nothing in return?
What if this abject rejection made you a better person? Wouldn’t that be the best thing that ever happened to you? Wouldn’t it be the best thing that ever happened to all those whose lives you touched?
What if you threw a party and no one came?
But how could no one turning up to a party change the world?
Let’s see… What if…?
What if you held an election…
So go. See. Feel. Live.
Steve
Steve N. Lee
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