Sep 25 2008
Has the World Gone Mad or is it Just Me?
Have you ever had one of those days?
I bet you have.
But have you ever had FOUR of ‘those days’ all crammed into one?!
Thursday was fun…
- As many writers have, I’ve a part-time job to supplement my income. Thursday morning, I moved into a new department. Nothing unusual there. Except I was never consulted about it and only learned I was being moved in a group email. The management regularly swears the staff is its most valuable asset. And we are. Assets, that is. Assets, things, unfeeling objects to be shifted about without thought or consideration like a desk, a cabinet, an old chair.
- On my way home, I came across a car waiting to exit from a side road. Just as I crossed behind it, the driver reversed and nearly ran me over. To warn him I was there, I banged my hand on his boot (trunk). His passenger wound down her window. An apology and concern for my well-being? Yeah, right. She bawled at me for having dared to bang on their precious car.
- Back home, I discovered my neighbour had erected scaffolding to undertake some renovation and it had blocked my satellite reception. I phoned my satellite provider’s technical department and asked how far away the scaffolding had to be moved from my dish to get my reception back. The technical expert said, “One mile.” Excuse me!? “So, I have to ask my neighbour to move his house a mile away to do his repairs?” The expert said he was trying his best so why I was being awkward.
- 24,000 children die in the Third World every single day. Thursday night, I tried to raise awareness of this in a blog post. It attracted a lot of attention. One commenter on a networking site posted his compassionate thoughts: “Awesome! The world is overpopulated as it is, what’s a few million n*gger deaths going to matter?”
Uncaring employers, dangerous strangers, incompetent helpers, vicious monsters… Yep, life is good!
Okay, so that’s an extreme example. But sadly such encounters are not a rarity. In fact, they’re increasing. It seems barely a week goes by without I’m forced to confront incredible incompetence, abject cruelty, or unbelievable insensitivity. That’s personally. If you take the daily news into account… well, it’s just in your face every moment of every day, isn’t it?
- Why do so many people see trampling over others as their only means to feel good about themselves?
- Why do so many almost pride themselves on being not just uninformed, but downright stupid?
- Why do so many see other people’s problems as something which they can use to their advantage?
Why does such a huge section of the population believe they are the centre of the universe, so to hell with anyone or anything that doesn’t improve their life?
Or am I completely wrong?
Could it be that it’s actually ME who is the centre of the universe? Maybe I’m all-powerful. Maybe I’ve constructed reality. Maybe you, and everything and everyone are merely constructs of my imagination. So why have I developed this masochistic tendency and insisted on making life so difficult for myself. Why couldn’t I create a paradise?
Because I’m twisted?
No.
Because man needs to be challenged.
If everything came easily, what would become of creativity, self-expression, invention, drive? If everyone was, in effect, permanently on a luxury holiday, wouldn’t the endless pleasure and needing for nothing drive us all insane? Wouldn’t the world grind to a halt?
Why do you think the super rich still work? And when they aren’t working, why do you think they have demanding hobbies like mountaineering, learning languages, or breaking speed records?
Why do you think J.K. Rowling wrote seven Harry Potter books when she was a millionaire after writing three?
We need challenges.
So the question is, why do so many people choose challenges that bring greater adversity into the world? Couldn’t they choose challenges to make the world a better place? Instead of needing to be the centre of the universe, where everyone bows down to their superiority, wouldn’t it be better to be make a valuable contribution for which they could be commended?
Choice defines us. Would it be so hard for each of us to choose to be forgiving, tolerant, educated, empathetic? If everyone strove to achieve that, think what a world it would be.
And the beauty of that is you’d create a far better world for yourself than you could through any amount of selfishness. Selfishness, ultimately, is a poor provider compared to unselfishness. Weird, huh!?
So why do so many choose selfishness over humanitarianism? If they are so desperate for a better life, can’t they see that the easiest way to achieve that is to encourage everyone to be more philanthropic, starting with themselves? That a better world for ALL would mean an infinitely better world for ONE? The ‘one’ being them.
But instead we choose to breed abject stupidity and twisted selfishness! We actively promote it in our schools and continue the process throughout adulthood through our media, peer pressure, and cultural conditioning. It’s everywhere. Like an incurable cancer eating away at society.
Is there no cure for this madness?
We need challenge. Whether it’s completing a jigsaw, a degree, or a space station. Without challenge we might just as well climb back into the trees. Why can’t we find challenges that truly tests us? Why is the only kind of challenge most of us dream of one that can be solved by vegetating in front of the TV, or abusing a stranger, or revelling in someone else’s misery?
Choice defines us. And we choose our challenges. Can’t we choose ones to be proud of?
So go. See. Feel. Live.
Steve
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